End it First Boy!!!

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Always end conversations, meetings, and phone calls first.

 [...] It does two things: First, it says "I'm not a needy guy, and I have things to do. I'm busy, and if you want me, you're going to have to work to get me."

Second, it sets up a situation where YOU are in control [...].

If you will start doing this with EVERY call, EVERY meeting, and EVERY conversation, you will be blown away at the responses you'll get.

You'll have women say "What? But we're having so much fun...!" and "Well, when can I see you again?" and "Don't you like me?".

By the way, don't take the bait when they say these things!

Say "Of course I like you, and of course I'm having fun, but I'm busy and I have a few things to do, so call me tomorrow and maybe I can get together with you at the end of the week again."

As much as you might think this is cruel and unusual punishment, women love nothing more than to go home wondering "Does he love me? Does he like me? Will he call me? Did he have fun?"

Why are Tests a Good Sign?

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"Once you understand that tests are automatic and that she's doing them because she's programmed to, you'll start to see it as a good thing.

Also - it's important to understand that if a woman is testing you she's doing it because she's attracted to you.

Women actually become attracted to many guys throughout the day. But they can't afford to be attracted to that many guys, besides the fact that they don't have time to date them all - it's not very comfortable.

So, in order to reduce the uncomfortable and unconscious "pull" of attraction they test.

This gives them certainty and puts their minds at ease.

And most of the time men will fail the test.

And when they do, the emotion of attraction subsides and [women] can go back to their business."

You Run Out of Things to Say... What to Do?

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We all have those moments when we run out of things to say. ESPECIALLY when it is a woman we really like.

 

The most important thing is to keep the conversation going anyway you can. You have to avoid letting an awkward silence fall between you. She will most likely make an excuse to leave because she is feeling uncomfortable if you don't.

 

Some tips to keep you going:

1) Anything to say, is better than nothing to say

2) Even if you go back to asking her about who she is, and what she does it is better than nothing

3) Use an opener (a line or routine that you use when you first approach a woman) or a story.

4) Move her to a different place (e.g. another part of the club or another cafe)

5) Drag out words, and talk slower (to give you time to gather your thoughts)

Do Things that Put a Smile on Your Face First

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"When dealing with women do the things that put a smile on your face first."

This is not what most men do. They try to do things that the women likes when they are with her. Unfortunately you are likely to communicate the dullest part of you like this.

If you are doing what you enjoy doing, you are living a cool life and you are enthusiastic about it, people are drawn to you.

Enthusiasm is contagious. If you are interested in what you are doing. Women will be interested also.

You could have some really dorky hobbies. Whether it is comic books or video games. It's not important.

What is important is the level of enthusiasm you have about them. And that you communicate it.

You have to be proud of everything about you - don't have any regrets. When you are with women, talk about the things that interest you, do the things that interest you. This will allow you to show your passion and enthusiasm for life.

Enthusiasm and passion are very important parts of your identity that convey attractive qualities to women.

The Man Initiates Sex

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Women love sex.

Which is not what social conditioning and the media tells you or how most men were taught as they grew up.

Most men have been raised to be proper polite gentlemen, and have been taught that to suggest sex to a woman would insult her because it would insinuate that she is a slut.

For women, sex is largely mental and emotional, and about being "taken" and "ravaged."

That does not mean that women want to be raped. NOT! Rape destroys a woman's sexuality for life.

But in the context of consent, mental stimulation, rapport, and trust, women love to be taken and ravaged... it makes them feel feminine and beautiful.

Women are however also victims of social programming.

Even though they love sex, most of them would never admit it to a stranger. It would make them appear to be a slut. And it would invite advances from men that objectify women.

So most women are sexually submissive. They do not initiate sex. Instead, they respond to their man when he initiates. And most women prefer it that way.

In fact women rarely suggest it because that would define them as a slut.

You need to break down hindering false beliefs about women and sex because they will hold you back. Replace those beliefs with beliefs that are empowering because they are based on reality.

As a man you can't be shy about sex. Because she most likely will be. You have to take the lead and initiate first. Because she most likely won't.

As a man you can't be shy about sex. Because she most likely will be. You have to take the lead and initiate first. Because she most likely won't.

Why is She Testing You?

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"When you have a strong frame, other people tend to accept it.

If you perceive her tests as playful and cute, they will often turn out harmless. If, on the other hand you perceive her tests as being scary and intimidating, then that is what they will become!

Women test your frame to find out if you are used to women liking you, if you try to make others feel good about themselves and their contributions and if you feel the need to impress others.

They also test to see if you feel guilty about your sexual desire, which would imply that you don't offer much in the bedroom.

She needs to know if you have a mind geared for survival. Do you get distracted by the opinions of others? Do you feel threatened by women? Do other men make you nervous? Are you emotionally unstable, causing you to be unduly affected by circumstances?

If she were to ask you these things directly, she KNOWS you could lie.

So instead of asking you, she tests your focus, your reactions, and gauges your intention and your personal beliefs. She watches you and feels you. She infers things about your character instantly, based on unconscious and rather ingenious intuition.

She is wired for this. From the moment she is aware of your existence, she is screening your character.

This is why merely knowing techniques doesn't get a person very far.

A weak and submissive man who memorizes routines is still a weak and submissive man."

Beware of Emotional Hijacks

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Emotions aren't a choice. They are just running in your brain.

Your brain creates the illusion that you are "FREE".

But, in fact, we are run by our emotions.

When you are feeling emotional about something when you are in a relationship with a woman. Avoid making decisions in that moment when you are feeling emotional (whether it be anger, jealousy, fear, sadness or even happiness).

The stronger the emotion, the more important that you avoid acting on it at that time.

The reason is that strong emotions hijack our thinking process. In many cases you are simply responding to millions of years old emotional programming or to your own past experiences when you act while feeling strong emotions. You are repeating patterns of behavior that can give you the opposite result of what you would like.

Worst of all, your emotions will rationalize any decision or action you make when under their influence to cover your emotional tracks. So you won't even be aware of having been driven by emotions at the time. Spooky isn't it...

Solution: NEVER ACT when you are feeling emotional. DO nothing and come back to the issue with a clear head later.