Do Things that Put a Smile on Your Face First

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"When dealing with women do the things that put a smile on your face first."

This is not what most men do. They try to do things that the women likes when they are with her. Unfortunately you are likely to communicate the dullest part of you like this.

If you are doing what you enjoy doing, you are living a cool life and you are enthusiastic about it, people are drawn to you.

Enthusiasm is contagious. If you are interested in what you are doing. Women will be interested also.

You could have some really dorky hobbies. Whether it is comic books or video games. It's not important.

What is important is the level of enthusiasm you have about them. And that you communicate it.

You have to be proud of everything about you - don't have any regrets. When you are with women, talk about the things that interest you, do the things that interest you. This will allow you to show your passion and enthusiasm for life.

Enthusiasm and passion are very important parts of your identity that convey attractive qualities to women.

The Man Initiates Sex

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Women love sex.

Which is not what social conditioning and the media tells you or how most men were taught as they grew up.

Most men have been raised to be proper polite gentlemen, and have been taught that to suggest sex to a woman would insult her because it would insinuate that she is a slut.

For women, sex is largely mental and emotional, and about being "taken" and "ravaged."

That does not mean that women want to be raped. NOT! Rape destroys a woman's sexuality for life.

But in the context of consent, mental stimulation, rapport, and trust, women love to be taken and ravaged... it makes them feel feminine and beautiful.

Women are however also victims of social programming.

Even though they love sex, most of them would never admit it to a stranger. It would make them appear to be a slut. And it would invite advances from men that objectify women.

So most women are sexually submissive. They do not initiate sex. Instead, they respond to their man when he initiates. And most women prefer it that way.

In fact women rarely suggest it because that would define them as a slut.

You need to break down hindering false beliefs about women and sex because they will hold you back. Replace those beliefs with beliefs that are empowering because they are based on reality.

As a man you can't be shy about sex. Because she most likely will be. You have to take the lead and initiate first. Because she most likely won't.

As a man you can't be shy about sex. Because she most likely will be. You have to take the lead and initiate first. Because she most likely won't.

Why is She Testing You?

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"When you have a strong frame, other people tend to accept it.

If you perceive her tests as playful and cute, they will often turn out harmless. If, on the other hand you perceive her tests as being scary and intimidating, then that is what they will become!

Women test your frame to find out if you are used to women liking you, if you try to make others feel good about themselves and their contributions and if you feel the need to impress others.

They also test to see if you feel guilty about your sexual desire, which would imply that you don't offer much in the bedroom.

She needs to know if you have a mind geared for survival. Do you get distracted by the opinions of others? Do you feel threatened by women? Do other men make you nervous? Are you emotionally unstable, causing you to be unduly affected by circumstances?

If she were to ask you these things directly, she KNOWS you could lie.

So instead of asking you, she tests your focus, your reactions, and gauges your intention and your personal beliefs. She watches you and feels you. She infers things about your character instantly, based on unconscious and rather ingenious intuition.

She is wired for this. From the moment she is aware of your existence, she is screening your character.

This is why merely knowing techniques doesn't get a person very far.

A weak and submissive man who memorizes routines is still a weak and submissive man."

Beware of Emotional Hijacks

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Emotions aren't a choice. They are just running in your brain.

Your brain creates the illusion that you are "FREE".

But, in fact, we are run by our emotions.

When you are feeling emotional about something when you are in a relationship with a woman. Avoid making decisions in that moment when you are feeling emotional (whether it be anger, jealousy, fear, sadness or even happiness).

The stronger the emotion, the more important that you avoid acting on it at that time.

The reason is that strong emotions hijack our thinking process. In many cases you are simply responding to millions of years old emotional programming or to your own past experiences when you act while feeling strong emotions. You are repeating patterns of behavior that can give you the opposite result of what you would like.

Worst of all, your emotions will rationalize any decision or action you make when under their influence to cover your emotional tracks. So you won't even be aware of having been driven by emotions at the time. Spooky isn't it...

Solution: NEVER ACT when you are feeling emotional. DO nothing and come back to the issue with a clear head later.

Can women really sense if a man is desperate!!!

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 The secret is really to NOT pretend that you’re not hungry. We all know that’s impossible. Women DO sense this and they DO avoid men with that rabid scent of "gotta get laid" just as much as men avoid the women with that rabid scent of "gotta get married."

But just because you’re hungry doesn’t mean you can only have ONE kind of food.

Wouldn’t it be nuts to say, “I’m starving to death! I haven’t had a bite to eat in 3 days!”

“Well, here, have some of my chicken sandwich.”

“Oh... Sorry, I only eat Pizza. Do you have any pizza? I gotta have some pizza!”

That would seem ridiculous, right?

But the same thing applies to women.

If you’re starving for sex, you’re not really looking at the big picture. You’ve just become a slave to your own genitals.

You can “feed” this hunger by using your sex drive to push you into new experiences in life, such as widening your social circle, trying a new way to meet women (such as the “multiple streams of female income” that I teach men how to leverage in my programs.)

Saying that you can only get fulfillment by getting a woman in your life is narrow-focused and short-sighted. If you find the things in life that REALLY fulfill you, women will realize that your hunger is not going to consume THEM.

Which is why women avoid these men.

You see, every women knows that behind a man starving for sex is a guy who hasn’t found his calling, or his Alpha Manhood. And she will not be able to trust him until he does.

But if he’s learned the secret of finding his "nutrition" in many other areas, she’ll know he’s stable and trustworthy.

A man's sex drive is one of the most powerful forces in the universe. Channeling that drive into other areas of your life will absolutely help you get rid of that "hungry" and desperate vibe.

If you’re a Hungry Guy - and we all have been at some point - the answer is NOT in chasing after women as the only path to your satisfaction.

The answer is completing your life so that when you’re with a woman, there could be a dozen just-as-cool things you could be doing at that moment.

THAT is when women will really take notice of you.

Because it's really not "hunger." It's ENERGY that you have not tapped into in the right ways to move your forward in the other areas of your life that you've been neglecting.

When you hold this energy in, you'll get emotionally constipated, which is part of that "X factor" you mentioned in your letter.

Unfocused light is useless. But focus that light into one coherent beam and you have a laser.

Let your energy out and push you toward feeding your desires with other achievements than women.

And I can guarantee you that the women will want to come along for that ride...

Why “text conversations” Annoy Her… and what to do instead

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I want to talk to you about TEXTING  with girls...Because most men use text messages DEAD WRONG. And they make one of these three common mistakes:

1. Totally boring her (and even annoying her) by sending dry, logical, and un-original texts.

2. Capture her attention but then spin their wheels going nowhere until the 
attraction fizzles out..

3. Or spend months playing “textual grabass” with her, all the while she’s f**king some other guy.

Here is a true but unfortunate fact:

When a woman gives you her phone number you have a small window of opportunity 
to turn that number into a meet-up, sex, or a relationship…Every second that goes by… that window begins closing and your chances of ever getting her out begins to quickly disappear. Here is another fact:

The next step can only come in person. This is where the majority of men mess up. You might think that having a handful of “text conversations” is helping your cause…But it’s not. There is a tiny little voice in every woman’s head that tells her “If he was “THE ONE” then it would have happened already…” Women desperately want to believe that when there is “chemistry” they’ll be swept away…This is why when you engage in “logical” back and forth conversation with a woman over text…
You’re kissing your chances goodbye. (Poof! Gone...)
So what should you do instead? It’s pretty simple. After sending a couple “radar” texts just to get her thinking about you…Each of your following texts should 
then be specifically designed to lead toward a meet-up.